I recently started to enter my goals using Google tasks in Chrome. These are my MITs for today. I think I’m starting to see some results.
I love checking them off throughout the day. It gives me motivation to focus on the important things in the day.
One of the new things for me is trying to balance learning/dev work and actually doing work at work. I think I have to do a better job. Right now, I am going to limit it to start – 11 am. I don’t want to spend more time on this. Plus, when there is a deadline/cutoff, I am more inclined to actually do it. I will try it this way for a while.
I am starting to see some good results with my relationship with my wife. I am just trying to not interfere and do as much as she asks of me. Plus, I try to do what she wants me to do.
I have discovered some revolutionary approach when I’m reading the book Love live for the married couple. I call it the year of new Stanley. I think she’s not going to recognize me after the year is over. I owe it to her.
Plus, with me waking up at 5am, I think I can dedicate the other time to my wife and kids. Completely. Yes, completely.
My wife first, computer 2nd. This by itself is going to change me.
Sometime she does get out of control and calls me names/etc. I am just not going to pay attention when she’s out of control. I will keep my cool. I don’t want to show anger. I don’t want to provoke her. She will get it someday. I have been through a lot. I know. She knows it. She’s been through a lot as well though.
I do want to change things. I always wanted. And I will.