My sons respond when they’re asked to try their best. Especially Victor. He’s at that age where he’s open to different dangers, I would say. He sees both bad and good behaviour. So we have to be strict with them. Let them know what’s good and bad. And whether that works or not, it’s hard to say. But at least we’re trying our best. That’s all we really can do.
My other son is also volnerable. He needs to be motivated to do things. So we have to challenge him and ask him to do things he might consider boring. Tv is not boring to him. But it’s a big danger. It’s a time waster. With him, we also have to try our best. We have to challange him, motivate him to work hard, and watch him.