I support my guys. I trust in their decision making. So if they tell me that they want to do something else, it’s really their choice. If they want to leave, it’s their choice.
So yesterday Justin told me he wants to be considered for the new DS position. I have not heard about it, or not a lot. But I told him that I will support him. It will be a loss, but any loss could be somebody’s gain. So I am for it.
One thing I learned is that I have to listen. I was born with 2 ears and 1 mouth. So when somebody has something to say, a concern, I need to listen. When people feel that they are heard, they feel appreciated. I need to do that for my wife as well. And kids. And everybody I know.