I’ve had enough of my wife’s screaming in our house. Really. I’ve had enough. I will not accept them any more. There are other, better ways of handling critical “I don’t like” it situations. Screaming is not one of them and I’ve made it known to my wife.
But she has those outbreaks from time to time. I don’t think she can control it. We might need to help her. We might need to support her. We might need to do things differently so those things don’t happen. That would be nice. That would make it better. But even with that, screaming like that is not acceptable.
I’ve made that clear to my wife. I’ve raised my voice and objected to that behaviour.
What drove me to that? She mentioned some party at D. Right away, she brought back the behaviour from NH that I apologized. She said she can “spit” on me. That made me feel upset. Why bring those issues from a year ago? Why? Perhaps one year is not enough, but I know for sure that bringing everything over and over is only adding fuel to the fire.