I have had a heated discussion in our retro meetings. I am not going to put up with things that are against me that I don’t agree with. I need to hold my ground. I need to fight what I think is right.
To some extent.
I don’t want to constantly disagree. I don’t want to be raising my voice all the time. I need to find a way to invite the other party for a discussion.
Am I hurting myself when I raise my voice. Perhaps. But a culture is at stake and if I go without giving my best, then I can be upset. If I go down after giving my best, then at least I can go with a good feeling.