I had a good, if unpleasant, talk with my wife yesterday. I need more of those. I need to meet with her on a regular basis to answer a basic question: how do we improve our relationship. We have to figure out the little things that can make it better. The little things that can make us happier.
I am now fully committed. I cut off a branch that was distracting me. I cut it off and it’s not going to regrow.
I committed to a few things. And because I did, I am not going to relent. I will try all I can.
What are some of the things I will be doing?
Not fooling around with other girls. No cheap tricks. I’m over it.
Noticing that my wife is at a party. She needs to know she’s there for me and I’m there for her.
Putting “love roadblocks.” Those will be things that will strengthen our love.
More to come.