Fabian needs discipline. He is taking advantage of my wife’s “being good” to him. That has to stop. He’s taking advantage of that. She’s giving in. And that is proving costly to her. Now she needs help.
It’s easy to provide help, except that it will not mean anything.
She has to figure out what works for him and her. She has to apply the right amount of pressure to get him. Not sure if it’s rewards or punishment. I feel it’s got to be discipline, asking for something and making sure it gets done, no matter what.