I am a person that likes working alone. I am a person that would not go out of its way to meet people. I am not really social. But I want to be. I want to be able to meet with others. I want to be able to make new friends. I want to be able to go out with friends. So what should I do?
I think having a good social life is important. Not only am I able to learn something from others, but I’m also able to have some fun.
However, my idea of friendship is different than my wife’s. She really social. But sometimes I tell her that I don’t want to meet with somebody. She does not like that. What is better, Stas, staying home alone? I don’t think so. I think going out, with anybody, is better than staying home. So, unless I have a better alternative, I should not even open my mouth. As simple as that.
So how do I create new friends. That’s the hard part. I have to make the initial contact and then stick to it. I have to be able to call somebody and arrange a meeting. There is no other way. In any case, I have lots of work to do in this regard.