My son likes something to do. I want him to be occupied as well. So I have a new project for him and he’s very excited! We’re going to install a bird feeder in our backyard today! He’s excited. I’m excited. Mommy is happy.
I need to do more of that. I need to find things to do for them. It can’t be just me. It can’t be that we’re not doing anything. I need to get him involved.
Whether it is just going to the library, or to the movies. Whether it is doing garage cleanup work, I need to get my boys involved.
That is my chance to stay closer to them. It’s my chance to connect to them. And this is my chance to create memories for them. They might remember some of the moments forever! We remeber feelings not things, so if one of these things makes them feel good, great!