I love my wife. I have been feeling like that all day. I love my job. Now I love my wife and my kids. This is not happening too often with my wife, so this is a big change, I feel. I have to keep doing things that improve our relationship. It’s not easy. It’s not easy for a guy like me, but if I refrain from complaining then I think it’s doable. It makes the situation a lot better. And that’s a good thing. That’s something I should be doing.
Tag: wife
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living better
I make a lot. I spend a lot. But my wife is not totally satisfied. She wants more. She wants to live better. She wants to spend more and the things she enjoys.
What do I do?
I am probably the most miserable man that’s out there. That’s just who I am. I have no social skills. I want to spend only on the necessities. I don’t like to spend on the things that we don’t really need.
But I don’t think that’s acceptable to my wife. I need to figure out a way to make her happy and myself happy.
I need to figure out a way to make both of us happy. I need to just live better! There is no reason not to enjoy myself more, go out at least once every 2 or 3 weeks. Really! I need to do that. I need to take my wife for a DATE from time to time.
I have been neglecting her. She feels it. She’s had it with the kids. It’s not very easy to stay with them for the whole day. And then Victor wakes up a few times a night. That’s very demanding. I need to accommodate her. I need to think about ways to please her. I need to make myself more available to her. I need to start living better!
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time at home
I have to control myself a bit when I drink. I get into a good mood and then I drink a lot. I should stop, take my time, talk to others, talk to my wife. Yeah. One thing I’m neglecting is that I don’t pay much attention to her. It’s as if she wasn’t there. I need to stop that. I need to take some time and talk to her. I can do that. I want to do that. She cares about me. I should care about her.
Does she care about me?
Most of the time she does, I think. But when I do something wrong, it’s really tough. That’s just the way she is. Really tough to handle. When she starts calling me names, that’s even worse! I can’t really take that. At that point, I should go outside or something. Something that will let her know that it’s not acceptable. I cannot accept that. I will not allow it. Period.
In some things she’s great, in some others she needs some guidence.
I just want here to open up a bit more. I want to help her. I know I can. She’s helping me, I guess. She’s totally different than I am. But over the last we weeks, I see some improvement. I am improving. I am changing my approach and I think she’s responding.